DaviD

my grandfather on my dad's side had just passed away
he lives in vietnam so i wont be able to see him
i dont really talk to my dad anymore

i've only met my grandpa once and i really dont like my dad's side of the family

of course i'm going to show my respects for him and all at church but i dont really know him so i dont really feel sad

is it wrong to not feel sad?

Brandy

first off, Sorry for you'res and you're familys' loss..
But,

Noo, it's not bad. .you don't really know him he was more or less a stranger.

My grandma passed away like..8 years ago and honestly everyone was crying and i was looking around and was like ' who was this girl '
Yuup
So don't feel bad. You din't know him

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Mike

People handle death in different ways.
It's ok for you to not miss someone who hasn't been a part of your life.
But it's good that you still respect his passing, even though he wasn't a part of your life, he was a part of your loved ones and all funerals, are a celebration of one's life...

My condolences to you and your family.

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Brandy

If you can, try and learn some stuff about him so you understand why everyone is going to miss him.
I don't know if what I just wrote made sense but yeah/

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s1eepyboy

if i were in your shoes i wouldnt feel sad either.

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MasterPower

Feeling sorry is for the people youlove not for your family necessasarily , and as you don't know him well , there is nothing wrong not to feel sorry for him

Brandy

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Originally Posted by MasterPower Feeling sorry is for the people youlove not for your family necessasarily , and as you don't know him well , there is nothing wrong not to feel sorry for him

You should probably feel sorry for him, and whoever it hurt with his passing.

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DaviD

i wasn't able to go to the mass cuz i was at work

i like what you said masterpower
(:

Brandy

Ohh, ok.
Are you okay with missing it ?

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Brandy

^
Holy shit thats HUGE

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prince

it's not nessecry to feel sorry for your grandapa , but that doesn't mean you don't go to the mass

DaviD

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Originally Posted by prince it's not nessecry to feel sorry for your grandapa , but that doesn't mean you don't go to the mass

i didnt go cuz i had work

M781

it's normal to feel....unsad...whatever...
you didn't meet alot and you don't talk to him a lot
so it's normal to not have feelings for him

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Nova

Well its normal to feel sad thats if you knew them, but how can you feel SO sad when you didnt even know him, by how i see, he was just like a stranger with the same blood as you so no its alright not to feel sad

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ebony15

how's your relationship with your daddy? like the father and son thing..
is your mom around??